Rules!

I was already asked a few times for tips to keep a slave under heel. Recently a young Domme asked Me again and asked Me what “rules of thumb” I have to do so.
I had never stood still at that, but when I started to think, I realized that indeed I have some “rules of thumb”. That is now why I wanted to write them down. I wonder what you think of them.

• Respect the privacy of your slaves if you want them to respect yours. Always make their face unrecognizable when publishing pictures or movies of them.

• Do not let them have social contact via phone, internet or anything else. Don’t give them the idea there are other possibilities to live their life!

• See for a cage you can put them in when you want them temporarily out of your life or sight. This is an extreme handy aid if your slave is living in your house 24/7. It is mandatory if you want to keep your “slavekeeping” secret to your public acquaintances and family.

• Make your slaves responsible for your boots cleanliness and foresee a hard punishment when you are not satisfied! Like that they will do unseen effort to keep them in a perfect state as no slave wants to meet My wrath when it comes to clean boots!

• Kick your slave out if he is not doing his best to please, serve, obey you! Don’t get soft, keep your pleasure, comfort and wellness always the top priority for your slaves. Never allow them to leave this path!

• Punish them daily to encourage them and keep them under heel, but only punish them for real, beyond their limits, when they break one of the rules or when they displease or disobey you. In that case, it is mandatory that you punish them real hard beyond their limits.

• Only let Your slave cum after he has giving you three orgasms. Like that, he will do his utmost best to bring you to heaven!

• Do not fulfill their desires just like that unless it fits yours or if you want to reward them.

• Reserve whips for punishment and whips for “encouragement”, so that there is a clear distinction between showing your authority and disapproval.

• Do kick them out if they start getting lazy, disobedient,…. Or so. Never let go of the reins! After a while most of the slaves will try to change it all in their advance. Do not allow anything that goes that direction!


All the above is just some random principles on how I manage to keep My slaves under heel. Probably this is uncomplete, but at least it is a start. I wonder how subs think about this, and how other Dommes do it. Maybe some extra rules can be added…..


Lady Contessa Pat