Rules!

I was already asked a few times for tips to keep a slave under heel. Recently a young Domme asked Me again and asked Me what “rules of thumb” I have to do so.
I had never stood still at that, but when I started to think, I realized that indeed I have some “rules of thumb”. That is now why I wanted to write them down. I wonder what you think of them.

• Respect the privacy of your slaves if you want them to respect yours. Always make their face unrecognizable when publishing pictures or movies of them.

• Do not let them have social contact via phone, internet or anything else. Don’t give them the idea there are other possibilities to live their life!

• See for a cage you can put them in when you want them temporarily out of your life or sight. This is an extreme handy aid if your slave is living in your house 24/7. It is mandatory if you want to keep your “slavekeeping” secret to your public acquaintances and family.

• Make your slaves responsible for your boots cleanliness and foresee a hard punishment when you are not satisfied! Like that they will do unseen effort to keep them in a perfect state as no slave wants to meet My wrath when it comes to clean boots!

• Kick your slave out if he is not doing his best to please, serve, obey you! Don’t get soft, keep your pleasure, comfort and wellness always the top priority for your slaves. Never allow them to leave this path!

• Punish them daily to encourage them and keep them under heel, but only punish them for real, beyond their limits, when they break one of the rules or when they displease or disobey you. In that case, it is mandatory that you punish them real hard beyond their limits.

• Only let Your slave cum after he has giving you three orgasms. Like that, he will do his utmost best to bring you to heaven!

• Do not fulfill their desires just like that unless it fits yours or if you want to reward them.

• Reserve whips for punishment and whips for “encouragement”, so that there is a clear distinction between showing your authority and disapproval.

• Do kick them out if they start getting lazy, disobedient,…. Or so. Never let go of the reins! After a while most of the slaves will try to change it all in their advance. Do not allow anything that goes that direction!


All the above is just some random principles on how I manage to keep My slaves under heel. Probably this is uncomplete, but at least it is a start. I wonder how subs think about this, and how other Dommes do it. Maybe some extra rules can be added…..


Lady Contessa Pat

dogs!

Maybe it is a coincidence but two days ago, I had to kick a dog real hard…..literally! I was walking along the country road near My home when a little dog (I don’t know the type as I am not into dogs at all) came running and barking at Me. Even when it was about twenty meters I started to prepare what I’d do if it came near. But the little coward stopped running and kept on barking at Me from a safe distance. you lowly cowardish little creep I thought to Myself you even don’t dare to come near. At that time I didn’t think of it, but the link with its male human counterparts was obvious. So I walked further, but as soon as I had passed it, it came after Me again. As I was prepared, I turned around quickly just in time to kick it as hard as I could with My heavy riding boot. Surprised by My firm action, I hit it full force making it fly through the air for a few meters! It squealed and fled away. To My satisfaction, I saw it was limping severely. Just what it deserved!
Now I am even more convinced: “dogs should be kept at a leash!” and not only the animals….
And if I ever meet that lowlife again, I will stamp it to death!!!!

Lady Contessa Pat

Snow!

As most of you have noticed, Europe was freezing cold for the past days.

Not that I have much discomfort from that, but for My slaves in the cellar, the cold is an ordeal. As they are cold, subjecting them to even more cold is an extra item in My palette of punishments.
Indeed, about a week ago, I had ordered jan to go outside and stand in the snow until I’d order otherwise (I don’t even know anymore what it was for). The fool thought he could take a coat, but as a reaction, I ordered him to get naked!
As expected, he did as I had ordered. Then I told marc that he could help his fellow slave by licking Me to orgasm. The sooner he’d succeed, the sooner his friend would get warm….
Although I cannot tell whether it was for Me or his friend, but marc really did his best and I only had him stopped when Myriam arrived.
So instead of going outside right away, I relaxed, had a chat with Myriam and changed clothes. I took a long fur coat that I didn’t wear since 5 years I think for the cold and some heavy leather riding boots. To My satisfaction, I found jan standing like a statue in the freezing cold. I went to him and asked if he felt cold. Of course he did. So, I told him that I’d warm him up if he’d beg me properly.
I let him worship Me for a few minutes and than I took him inside. Here I had another surprise for him as I had this wicked idea on how to warm him up: “a good whipping will warm you up, doesn’t it slave?” I asked him, “Or do you prefer to remain outside?.....hahahahahaaaaaa….” Of course he choose the first option and like that, I whipped him for at least ten minutes. I don’t know if by then he really felt warm like he said, but his thighs and ass were bright red after that.
I wonder if some of you have similar experiences. Does a whipping indeed warm up a body?

A pity I only have a pic taken with My mobile phone and therefore poor quality. Maybe Myriam has a better one. I will ask her.

Lady Contessa Pat

Enquete

To My delight, the poll that just finished showed that around 90% of you visitors of this site agree with Me that I don’t have accountability for what I do with My slaves.
However, I am surprised! When I look at the personal mails I get concerning the way I treat My slaves, in about 50 % of them, people are telling Me that I am too cruel and should not treat humans the way I do!
Over the years, this kind of mails made Me doubt about My feelings and sexual preferences. The result of the poll strengthens Me now more than ever that I don’t do anything wrong and that I can keep on living the life I live.

Lady Contessa Pat