Saturday, January 12, 2013

subs and Women abuse


It probably is a fact that subs do not abuse Women since real subs worship Females.

The only time I found a slave trying to stand up against Me was when I had whipped him far beyond his limits. he got mad when I kept on whipping him while he was yelling and screaming to stop.
I realized that most of his yelling was out of frustration that he had no control over the situation and that he was 100% subjected to Me and My sadism since he was cuffed and chained to a radiator pipe.

When I thinking this over, I came to the conclusion that many subs are prepared to be your “slave” as long as they have the final control. However the moment he feels that he lost this control, he panics and wants to get out of that situation no matter what and will drop his submissivity and good manners. At that moment, they start screaming and yelling, even threatening his Mistress! But, if You don’t give in and keep on whipping, kicking or punishing him, his attitude will change to helpless begging (at least that is what I have experienced a few times already). That is the moment You broke him! When he realizes that he is helpless and 100% at your whims and mercy and it is up to You when to stop. Not his call! Although I advise to stop then pretending that is Your choice because I do not know what phase might come after. Also, it is better to leave the slave cuffed and chained for a while (cfr. overnight) because right after the punishment his adrenalin-level might still be high, risking to overtake his submissive feelings and turn against You. So, the best idea is to let him cool down for a few hours. This probably drops his adrenalin and makes him think more rational and again giving in to his submissive feelings. Working this way, a sub will keep on very submissive and obedient (afraid for the punishments) but will not run away when punishing him beyond his limits. Also, it is mandatory that You make clear that if he runs, there is no way back, and that You will never take him back!!!! he must realize that You give him that special relationship. An unique, hard to find relationship he is sexually longing for and that he will lose this forever if he leaves!
I don’t claim that this is the only approach, but for Me this worked fine for quite some years.

Now I realize I was going to write on subs and Women abuse but I got carried away….

 
Lady Contessa Pat

Clean this .......

or get....THIS!!!!

3 comments:

  1. You are dead right L C P, about the control. Until a sub has been subjected to this level of punishment they will never be truly servile.

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  2. When you whip someone, does the punishment usually match the severity of the crime? Or is based on your whim?

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  3. Noble Lady Contessa Pat,Mistress. How true Thy words Mistress. Yes we subs will and do offer our submission, and yes so often with good intent;however honestly we belive our words,our Commitment to be!
    But untill our Control is Challanged and Defeated (Submission through Complete and Total Surrender) by our Dominants Chastisements a sub male shall never be a true slave,untill Broken and cleansed of its pride,it shall remain feral. Only after our Free will is taken,reshaped and Surrendered to You without reservation, may we be released as useful creatures into Thy Realm !! Hopeful slave in waiting

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