Training

Since a few weeks I am training a slave to become part of Our slavepool (I wrote on that before). he will not be with Me for 24 hours a day, but will be available for Me and My friends whenever We call for him. To be honest, his dressage was not a big deal since he had been living a life as a slave for years. And indeed I did not need to break him or so. he was down at My boots from the first minute on and he complied with everything I ordered him. Even the most disgusting things were no problem. I thought he’d give up then so I could punish him severely, but instead he obeyed without hesitation!  So today, he can call himself My slave, or “slave of Lady Contessa Pat” as in the nice picture taken by Myriam just before I started his final dressage.

 

Lady Contessa Pat

 

subs and Women abuse

It probably is a fact that subs do not abuse Women since real subs worship Females.

The only time I found a slave trying to stand up against Me was when I had whipped him far beyond his limits. he got mad when I kept on whipping him while he was yelling and screaming to stop.

I realized that most of his yelling was out of frustration that he had no control over the situation and that he was 100% subjected to Me and My sadism since he was cuffed and chained to a radiator pipe.

When I thinking this over, I came to the conclusion that many subs are prepared to be your “slave” as long as they have the final control. However the moment he feels that he lost this control, he panics and wants to get out of that situation no matter what and will drop his submissivity and good manners. At that moment, they start screaming and yelling, even threatening his Mistress! But, if You don’t give in and keep on whipping, kicking or punishing him, his attitude will change to helpless begging (at least that is what I have experienced a few times already). That is the moment You broke him! When he realizes that he is helpless and 100% at your whims and mercy and it is up to You when to stop. Not his call! Although I advise to stop then pretending that is Your choice because I do not know what phase might come after. Also, it is better to leave the slave cuffed and chained for a while (cfr. overnight) because right after the punishment his adrenalin-level might still be high, risking to overtake his submissive feelings and turn against You. So, the best idea is to let him cool down for a few hours. This probably drops his adrenalin and makes him think more rational and again giving in to his submissive feelings. Working this way, a sub will keep on very submissive and obedient (afraid for the punishments) but will not run away when punishing him beyond his limits. Also, it is mandatory that You make clear that if he runs, there is no way back, and that You will never take him back!!!! he must realize that You give him that special relationship. An unique, hard to find relationship he is sexually longing for and that he will lose this forever if he leaves!

I don’t claim that this is the only approach, but for Me this worked fine for quite some years.

Now I realize I was going to write on subs and Women abuse but I got carried away….

 

Lady Contessa Pat

Clean this .......

or get....THIS!!!!

Disgusting!!!!!

I am disgusted about the rapes that happened in India, and I think you all should!!!

Yesterday I heard on the news that the rapists risk of getting a lifetime imprisonnement. Oh I would love to be a warden in that prison!!!!! Believe Me, these bastards would regret their acts every single second. I’d make every day a living hell for them and I am sure it would not be difficult to find Women like Me who’d love to whip and kick the shit out of them. I think Women would stand in rows to make them pay for their scandalous behavior! I could easy imagine to have each single rapist in the middle of our group of women, well equipped with suitable whips and other items to torture them. I’d love to see six pairs of boots kicking the scum in the middle into a bleeding heap of flesh! And I’d do that each single day of their life until they’d die a slow death! No. Now these bastards in the worst case might face to get a neat end of their useless life, if not less.

The bad thing about this is that it is not an exception, but much to often general practice in large areas on this planet…. Shame on you males!!!!!!

 

Lady Contessa Pat

The choice is Yours!!!!

A few days ago, after I had been shopping with a friend of Mine we were sitting in a cozy café in Antwerp when she started to complain on the fact that her macho husband was lazy and didn’t do a thing to help her in the busy household.

As she does not know about My hidden life, I could tell her everything, but I advised her to order him to help. I did this because the bastard once tried to seduce Me telling Me that I looked like a Goddess and that he’d do anything for Me. Of course I was not buying that from a macho like him. But now it looked like an opportunity to Me and I told her to tell him that it was Me who’d told her to order him. But, she told Me it would not work and that she was even afraid to tell him something like that and she started to tell things about him I never expected. Then I told her the only way than is simply leaving him, but that as well seemed to be no option to her. Afterwards I told the story to My friend Myriam who also is a Domme and We came to the conclusion that women like Marleen better took a sub as husband instead of a good looking macho and make him work hard for them. Unfortunately very few women seem to think that way. A pity.

But ladies the choice is yours!

 

Lady Contessa Pat