I just read an article in a blog about a Mistress that got attacked by her “slave” during a whipping. The guy claimed that she was hitting too hard….???!!!!!
I think this is soo typical for males: they want to eat the fruits of BDSM, but not the consequences.
To avoid that slaves might stand up against me during a whipping or other punishment, I always cuff and chain My slaves when I whip them real hard (as a punishment).
From several experiences, I know that there are always four phases in this process: first, they play along, showing how tough they are (hahahahahaaaaa…..), but when you start to hit harder, they soon beg to stop. When you then don’t, they get angry after a while and start to threaten. It is iduring this phase that handcuffs are necessary! Neglecting this rule can be unpleasant and frustrating as I not that long ago experienced Myself.
Anyway, If however you have them secured and if you neglect their rage, you will finally see that they will restart begging you to stop. The latter however will proven to be different. More humble, more submissive, more sincere ……!
That is the time they have given up their male macho pride. At that moment, You really have broken them!
It then is mandatory not to release them yet as the risk of getting angry again is real in this stage. Instead, I keep them chained for a few more hours letting them cool down, while I explain them in detail what the consequences are of the next choices he’ll have to make.
Or they can leave after that and never show up again. No hard feelings, no blaming. But, I always make clear to them that if they leave, they can never ever come back and will loose an unique relationship.
The other choice is that they accept My full ownership over them, accepting really everything from Me. But that, at the same time, they can avoid a whipping to the bone like that if they obey My every whim. That I will be fair and not punish them like that if they behave 100% according to My wishes and that by choosing that option, their reward will be: a strict, but fair Mistress, they can serve for the rest of their lifes!
So after such a punishment, you got yourself a loyal lifetime slave or lost a lousy one. Handcuffs can make the difference!!!
Lady Contessa Pat
Thank You for sharing Madame. Great post. Those who dont want to abide...can leave.. its as easy as that. Have a great New Year Ma'am.
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Lady Contessa Pat,Mistress.slave has read with much interest this blog.Mistress,slave understands the process Mistress.
ReplyDeleteMistress is truly enlightened and Your understanding of the males mind set as it is reduced to a blubbering object of Servile Surrender to Your Magnificence is obviously a well practised one Mistress.
slave understands the need to be cleansed of its male pride and that a slave in training must be reduced to Begging so it Surrenders its lowly self unconditionaly into Mistresses Service!!