Handcuffs

I just read an article in a blog about a Mistress that got attacked by her “slave” during a whipping. The guy claimed that she was hitting too hard….???!!!!!

I think this is soo typical for males: they want to eat the fruits of BDSM, but not the consequences.
To avoid that slaves might stand up against me during a whipping or other punishment, I always cuff and chain My slaves when I whip them real hard (as a punishment).
From several experiences, I know that there are always four phases in this process: first, they play along, showing how tough they are (hahahahahaaaaa…..), but when you start to hit harder, they soon beg to stop. When you then don’t, they get angry after a while and start to threaten. It is iduring this phase that handcuffs are necessary! Neglecting this rule can be unpleasant and frustrating as I not that long ago experienced Myself.
Anyway, If however you have them secured and if you neglect their rage, you will finally see that they will restart begging you to stop. The latter however will proven to be different. More humble, more submissive, more sincere ……!
That is the time they have given up their male macho pride. At that moment, You really have broken them!
It then is mandatory not to release them yet as the risk of getting angry again is real in this stage. Instead, I keep them chained for a few more hours letting them cool down, while I explain them in detail what the consequences are of the next choices he’ll have to make.
Or they can leave after that and never show up again. No hard feelings, no blaming. But, I always make clear to them that if they leave, they can never ever come back and will loose an unique relationship.
The other choice is that they accept My full ownership over them, accepting really everything from Me. But that, at the same time, they can avoid a whipping to the bone like that if they obey My every whim. That I will be fair and not punish them like that if they behave 100% according to My wishes and that by choosing that option, their reward will be: a strict, but fair Mistress, they can serve for the rest of their lifes!

So after such a punishment, you got yourself a loyal lifetime slave or lost a lousy one. Handcuffs can make the difference!!!

Lady Contessa Pat

Protective caps

Everyone knows that I like to wear sharp Mexican type spurs at My boots. But, before My mailbox gets filled with angry mails and to avoid any misunderstanding: I never wear them while riding a real horse! So those that tell Me that cruelty towards animals cannot be tolerate can relax.
I used to make My slaves carry Me towards the stables for a ride. In the beginning I had My slave take another type of spurs with him so he could change the sharp ones with the more classic ones the moment we arrived at My horse.
Since I saw protective plastic caps around spurs in a horseshop I got this idea to use such caps over some of My spurs to ride a real horse.
Like that I could wear sharp (small) roweltype spurs for riding My human ponyslave towards the stables, while simple placing of protective caps makes the spurs suitable for a real horseback ride. When returning, they can be easily removed again for use on human ponyslaves….

Of course this does not work for all My spurs, as for most of them, there are no protective caps available.

Lady Contessa Pat

A drink for a slave

Some years ago, I had this slave who had a fetish to be pissed on by a Woman.
That was why I only did this on him if I wanted to reward him. If however today I piss on marc or jan on the other hand, it is just to punish or humiliate them. Simply because it is not a fetish of them and is only humiliating to them.
Anyway, lately I was thinking on this when I was writing for My fantasy-group (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lcpcf), more specifically about that system I used to use on him to get My piss into his mouth without much spilling. It was simple: I made him lay down, face up, mouth open and I held a whip in front of Me, the major part right under My pussy, the other end just in his mouth. Like that, My jet hit the leather string and flew down along it straight into My slave’s mouth. And, except in the beginning and in the end, the spill was limited. No need to tell you of course that afterwards, I made him lick up the spilled urine from the ground!
I also remember that one day I had used the wet whip on him (normally I made him lick the whip clean and dry it off). The result was that the whip was somewhat heavier and had more impact at each hit. Like that, the leather also got dried a bit as the urine was splashed over his back. Maybe this is just a stupid experience, but as I was writing for My fantasy-group, I was thinking of it and thought I could share this experience.

Lady Contessa Pat