Monday, May 27, 2013

Same boots, same feelings....


I wonder if anyone can tell Me which are Mine and which are Charlotte's
Just to show you that I am on the same wavelength as My German Domme friend: without having said a word on it, during Our latest ride near Aachen We showed up at the manege wearing the same boots! A stableboy took this picture when he remarked it and told Us We looked like sisters. I consider that as trying to flatter Me, because I think Charlotte is a very beautiful woman. And indeed, he had showed more than professional interest in Me and hang around Me to help Me on My horse, strap the saddle,….  he did his best to impress Me with his charm. Unfortunately, I think he was more into vanilla then the more rewarding kind of relationships.

 

Lady Contessa Pat aka Madam Kommandante

Sunday, May 26, 2013

A useful slave

A useful slave indeed
The picture was sent to Me by an admirer who claims that, like Myself, he feels that BDSM is mainly about fullfilling males fetishes. I couldn’t more agree, although I realize that a Mistress also should have something the subs like. I think that is always the case in a relationship, whether it be a vanilla one or a more thrilling one.

One can call Me egoistic, but to Me a slave is just that creature that makes life easier and more pleasant for Me. It provides Me a relaxed life of fun, sexual and mental fulfillment, without working, household chores, gardening, ….

Nevertheless I realize I can only live this life because there exist men that long to be dominated by a strong Female. Like that, the mutual interest in the relation is created. However, as the sub said, most subs are only looking to fulfill their own desires and only want a “relationship” on their terms. Not to be surprised that they do not find a genuine Dominant Mistress that fits. The only solution for these guys is a ProDomme. And indeed I have seen too many subs like that! The picture d. sent Me therefore is a good example of how a true Mistress-slave relationship should be: the male in service of the Woman! Not because he likes it, but because it makes life better or easier for Her! To Me, this guy is a true slave and this Lady a true Dominant. No half naked model on high heels posing, but a Woman of real flesh and blood just using her slave for Her benefit!

 

Lady Contessa Pat aka Madam Kommandante

Monday, May 13, 2013