Wednesday, June 23, 2010

pony riding


Some years ago, I had contact (only via the net, but that is another story) with a slave that was into ponyriding. At that time, I had ridden humans on parties and so, but was not really into ponyriding as such.
However due to some ideas of him, I experienced some “2 legged”-riding. Not with the guy that convinced Me about the joy of ponyriding, but with My own slaves (at that time I had 2 and I was not sure about his real intentions as he seemed merely to be interested in My identity, which I did not want to give to a stranger).
Anyway, at that time I started to ride My slaves, first indoors and soon after that also outdoors. I particularly enjoyed that My ponyslave ran Me to the stables when I wanted to go for a ride with My real horse. Especially when it has been raining and the gras is wet. The first time I did this indeed was because of the wet and muddy ground after a shower and I did not want to get My new boots wet and muddy. So marc took Me to the stables where I could simply step from one stirrup to the other, without My boots touching the ground. As all this was so simple and comfortable, from that moment on, I nearly always had Me brought to My horses (at that time I still had 2) like that. As I liked to walk around My garden now and then to see how nature changes, I started enjoying My ponyslave to walk Me around My garden (which is rather big). Maybe it is hard to imagine, but I like nature very much. I can get excited when I see a special bird, or see a small plant growing into a piece of art! Recently I dared to take the next step in ponyboyriding: I took My pony out to have a walk on him in the forrest! Of course I could not do this nearby, but driving about 1,5 hours with My car to the south brings Me in a part of the country that is far less populated and gives One the chance of hiking for hours without seeing another human (especially during the week). I had discovered this during “ordinary” hiking in this area and one day I go this terrific idea! I have been doing this now a few times with marc and we never encountered other people up till now. Of course we are prepared in case we’d hear someone coming near. We already have a scenario in mind how to react in such a case….
I wonder if anyone had ideas or experiences like that or what you think of the risk I am taking. But it is so thrilling! Maybe partially because of the risk of getting caught?

Lady Contessa Pat


Tuesday, June 1, 2010


Since a few weeks I have this new slave now. But it is not him I want to talk about. It is all these other would-be slaves who are telling Me now that I should take them instead of dirk. That they would be far better slaves and that they’d do anything to become My slave. Strangely, none of them did much effort to become My slave when I was in need of a new one! Is that a typical male property? Of course some of them asked from day one for an appointment. When I refused this (I really have not the intention of giving up My anonymity to each and every sub that I meet via the net!), their interest seems to be gone just like that. I also have the impression that nearly all of the so called slaves only are interested in their own pleasure. I think they are no slaves but fetishists, looking for a woman to fulfill their desires! I hate these types. they should go to a professional domme!! Not bothering a lifestyle Domme!
The most striking example was a foreign student who lives in Holland. He looked a promising slave and after some contacts via the net, I considered of meeting him as he appeared to be a virgin!!!!!! It thrilled Me getting the opportunity to train a virgin into a submissive willess slave that jumps at a snatch of My fingers. But, when we were about to make an appointment, he asked money to meet him! I think I somewhat exploded! Asking money as a slave??? Of course by then he knew I am rather wealthy and must have thought to get his share. You can imagine how this “relationship” ended! I am still getting outrageous when I think of this.
Due to all these disappointments I indeed had decided to take dirk as My new slave. I know he probably would not have been My first choice due to his inexperience, but at least he seems to be trustworthy and loyal.

Lady Contessa Pat

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Interesting meeting

Not so long ago, I met a very interesting girl. Although being relatively young, she already knew very well how to get what she wants.
It was on a private party where I got to talk to her by accident, but immediately, we got along.
It appeared that in contrast with Me, she frequents all kinds of fetish and BDSM-parties in Belgium and abroad and although I think she must weigh around 90 kilos, she moved like a tigress and radiated dominance in a way seldom seen.
After some chit-chat, she told me her story: Being a little bit so called volumptuous, she was considered the ugly duckling for years. At that time, boys or men didn’t even look at her. Disappointed by this, one day she decided to give free reign to her dominant nature. As soon as she left her place of birth, she started to change to clothes that expressed more her real feelings. Cheap shoes changed into shiny leather boots, dull skirts became skin fitting leather pants, explicit mascara appeared on her face,…
In no time she felt that many men started to get interested in her like that and that she was all of a sudden in the middle of their attention and admiration. Even when going out with friends she saw that attention shifted from her “natural beauty” friends to her. In the beginning, not really realizing her real power, she hooked on the first boyfriend she could get, but after some months, she realized that she attracted men that were prepared to serve her as a godess. A bit later, she had her first real BDSM-experience. A guy had offered her to become her slave. She said that although she knew he was drunk, he meant his offer. The booze only made him dare to say where he longed for. Two days later she contacted him and they decided to give it a try. Due to this man, she was able to fulfill a old dream to learn how to ride horses and become a horsewoman. She said that the first whipping she administered was with a riding crop she got as a present from him.
She also told me that a guy she was in love with but rejected her at the age of 18, now begs her to become hers! She called it her little revenge. At that time she did not know he was a sub. Now she is in the possiblility to toy with him around!
The bottom line is: Girls, don’t go after a man. Just make them beg for you! I simply don’t understand why women don’t.

Lady Contessa Pat

P.S. I’d love to put a picture of her on My blog, but I must ask her first as I do not want to violate her privacy.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Normal?

Just heard on the radio that scientific experience in France showed that 80% of the people are prepared to torture someone for money.
When I said in some forums that I am a sadist and enjoy breaking slaves many of the members called Me “weird”. Now it appears that My feelings are not that strange. Torturing someone for money is normal. Doing this for sexual pleasure is weird????????
And even then, I only hurt people if they displease Me. Not just like that!

Lady Contessa Pat

Thursday, January 21, 2010

As usual...

Some days ago, I have kicked My slave jan out! After being My slave for more than half a year, he disappointed Me seriously! Although I always explicitly forbid My slaves to have contact with other people, I found out that he had had contact with his ex-wife! His ex!!!!! Outraged about this, I had handcuffed him to a radiator. Then I had taken My most cruel single tail and have been whipping him for more than a quarter of an hour, full force! He screamed like a pig that got skinned! With each hit, it looked like I got excited more and more. I think it must have been because of the mixture of anger and the feeling of unlimited power over a defenceless creature that was completely surrendered to My whims. I really got hot like hell and I think that made Me even hit harder. he cried, screamed and finally shouted that I was crazy and that I could not treat a man like that. I think I was too much in trance to stop and I kept on whipping as hard as I could. The difficult part in the end was to release him as I was a bit afraid he might attack Me for what I had done to him (his back was bleeding all over, but he must have found that out later). Luckily for Me he did not, but he threatened to go to the police and to sew Me. he said the way I whipped him was inhuman and that he did not wanted to see Me anymore. I remember I was relieved but also a bit afraid for a legal case when I let him out. Luckily he did not put charges on Me. On the contrary, yesterday, he called Me back to excuse himself. I refused him, but today I already feel sorry that I did and did not use this advantage to impose new conditions on him. It might be a change to get a real “no limit slave”. Because, there are many slaves around, but very few “no limit slaves”. One advice to all real Dommes: if You have one: keep it! they are rare!

Lady Contessa Pat

Monday, January 11, 2010

Snow!


Snow! Children like it, adults are afraid of it for the safety on the roads. Yesterday, a friend of Mine said she hated it because it sticks to shoes and boots and like that it is taken all over the house, making a mess. I didn’t say anything at that moment, but I was amused thinking that she could easily solve this, if only she’d be less conservative and made use of the “natural resources” that We call “slaves”. In My house, not stain coming from snow or ice will be seen on the floor! My slaves know that I would not allow that to happen! As soon as I enter the hall, one of them knows it is his duty to remove the snow from My boots. In the hall stands a comfortable chair where I can sit while My slave is performing his task. Before I enter one of the adjacent rooms or corridors My boots are always dry and clean! And the hall? Well of course, cleaning the floor over there is their problem! And it better be dry and clean when I return there!

Lady Contessa Pat

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Wintertime.... boottime!

Honestly I am a little bit ashamed of the vast number of boots I have, most of them only worn a few times, but I cannot pass a shop when I see a lovely pair. As I explained this a few weeks ago to a slave, he suggested to take him for “bootshopping”. At that moment, I hit him in the face as I did not wanted to show up in public with a slave. But, after a few days, I started to think it over again and decided that maybe it was not a bad idea at all. I realized it could be fun taking a slave to a city abroad for shopping. Nobody would recognize Me and who would be suspicious about a woman trying on new boots and helped with this by her husband or lover? Like that, a few days ago, we went to a city in the western part of Germany. In the beginning, I was a little bit anxious that nevertheless the fact that we were abroad and in a big city, someone would recognize Me. But, after a while I got acquainted to the anonymity of the big foreign city and I relaxed.
In the beginning I had jan only unzipping the boots I was wearing and helping to put the new ones on, but after a while a started to go further.
Like that, I told him, the boots had a small stain, so he took a clean handkerchief and polished the leather. Later on, he bent completely forward and exhaled on the leather to create some condensation on the leather for better cleaning,….
In one of the shops I pushed the sole in his the face when the shoplady left us for a moment and I ordered him to smell what material the soles were made of and I kicked his face softly with the sole while he was doing so.
In a Western-shop, I found some very vicious looking spurs and tried several. Of course it was jan who fixed them one by one on My boots. Finally, I bought three “special” types!
By the end of the day, I was walking through the streets, My slave behind Me, carrying several bags…..Afterall, wintertime indeed is boottime!
Oooohhh, I love the good life!

Lady Contessa Pat